How Many Degrees of Separation are There?

After my latest heartbreak, I’ve decided to take a long break from the whole dating/looking for love scene. It seems that eligible men are very far and few between when you get to middle age. Mind you, I didn’t ask to be single at my age, it just turned out that way. It’s been great […]

Caring too Much

        This week a friend posted something on Facebook about not caring about anything and being heartless. She got quite aggravated at me because I pointed out, and I recruited my boyfriend to point out there’s no way she can be heartless. We all belong to a private group and we’re straight allies for lesbians, […]

Is Loving Someone of the Same Sex a Sin Akin to Murder?

Last week a debate raged on my Facebook page while I was in the middle of moving. A gay friend had posted a sign on my page that said, “If you believe homosexuality is a sin, unfriend me now and save me the trouble.” I’ve posted similar status updates, but 1,500+ people have stayed around, […]

Don’t Ignore Those Feelings in Your Gut!

Sometimes, I know way down deep in my bones when I’m about to make a huge mistake. My stomach has a giant knot inside it and my mind is very conflicted. It’s because I’m not staying on the path intended for me and listening to outside influences. You would think by now I would have […]

Girl’s Night In

Since Blondiva, that’s me, and Hollywood have finally settled into domesticated roommate dramatic bliss, we are officially broke. Going without food for a month was difficult. Hollywood needed a comforter set and items for her bathroom. It set her back some. Luckily, I have great friends who helped me out and we managed to squeak […]

Accepting All People and Embracing Diversity

I just finished taking my first online class. Yes, there was a big sigh of relief following that sentence. I have many more to go to get my degree, but I’m proud of what I learned about myself in this course. It was designed just for that reason. PSY 202 is a course to help […]

Too Much Hollywood for Blondiva

I never thought in a million years that Blondiva would meet the male version of Hollywood, but I did. Ironically, he’s dating the female Hollywood and she is all giggles and grins these days. You would think she is 17 again from the way she acts when he’s around.  Of course, he’s blonde and has […]